1st Guildford Starting Over from Divorce & Redundancy Road Show
June 18, 2011 by Suzy
Francine Kaye: Divorce with Dignity
June 7, 2011 by Suzy
Do You Want To Avoid A Destructive Divorce But Don’t Know How To Begin?
Do You Want to Avoid Spending Thousands of Your Hard Earned Income on Legal Battles?
Do You Want to Keep Your Kids Physically Well and Emotionally Healthy During Your Divorce?
Do You Sincerely Want to Divorce with Dignity?
If you answered ‘Yes’ to any of the above then Francine Kaye’s new programme ‘Divorce With Dignity’ is for you.
Ask anyone who has experienced an acrimonious and destructive divorce (who never thought they would!). Here’s what they will tell you:
It Can Cost Thousands and Thousands of Pounds Eating into your Hard Earned Income.
It Can and often Does Destroy a Future Relationship with the Parent of Your Children
It Can and Will Emotionally Drain you. You’ll Lose Your Focus, it’s Hard to Function and it Will Impact Your Health.
Your Kids Can Suffer Emotionally and Become Unwell
You Can Even Become Embroiled in Miserable Court Battles to See Your Own Kids.
If you truly want to eliminate the pain and trauma of a bitter and angry divorce then the ‘Divorce with Dignity’ programme is for you. ‘Divorce With Dignity’ reveals a step by step, easy way for you to avoid the Hidden Dangers of a Destructive Divorce.
Francine Kaye is the UK’s Leading Relationship Expert and appears on The Wright Stuff, The Trisha Show, GMTV, BBC, Lorraine Kelly, Vanessa Feltz, CNN and features in the national press and on radio. She has helped hundreds of men and women overcome the pain, trauma and havoc caused by divorce.
Her new programme, Divorce With Dignity addresses the top areas that concern Everyone who gets divorced. The Divorce With Dignity approach completely supports you to:
Cope With the Pain of Separation
Avoid Reactive Battles and Bitterness
Handle the Finances Effectively
Prepare for Mediation or Lawyers
Create Powerful Boundaries That Support You
Manage the Kids
Stay Focused on Your Work
Maintain Your Emotional and Physical Health
Communicate Clearly with Your Ex
Keep Your Dignity in tact
Understand Why This Happened to You
Get Your Identity Back
Get Ready To Move Forward With Your Life
You really are just one step away from Divorcing with Dignity.
Sign up for Francine’s FREE 7 DAY FIRST AID TOOLKIT here…….
or call Francine direct on: 0208 416 0121
Divorce Agony Aunt Francine Kaye – June 2011
June 6, 2011 by Suzy
Q : Our Mediation process just keeps breaking down.
We are both so keen to do this without laywers but just keep getting into the same arguments – please help!
A: Well, this does not surprise me ‘Angela’. Both of you are hurt and upset and you are bringing the same upsets to the mediation as you had in your relationship. Unless you can control your emotional temperature, you’ll repeat the same patterns whilst hoping for a different outcome. The chances are you will end up spending thousands of pounds with lawyers when all you really need is some very simple skills to cope with your conflicts.
When your partner says something that you feel you want to justify and defend, take a deep breath and simply reflect back what he is saying. Something like ‘so what you are saying is… ‘, and repeating back what he is saying, will allow him to experience being listened to. You don’t have to agree with him.
Then when its your turn to speak, he is more likely to take a moment to listen to you. Imagine being able to talk so your partner will listen an listen so your partner will talk. On the Divorce with Dignity Programme you’ll easily learn how to avoid the upset, energy, time and, of course, the money you are wasting spending your mediation sessions in conflict.
Q:My friends ex husband is using their children as a ‘weapon’ against her.
He is mentally abusive and has been both mentally and physically abusive in their relationship, plus he has the financial power. What can she do?
Your friend must seek legal advice. If she really cannot pay for it, she may get legal aid. Her local library or Citizens Advice Bureau will have details of a local law firm or she can contact suzy@startingovershow.co.uk for an SOS recommendation. If she has access to a computer she can go on line to find legal aid lawyers, or information on DIY divorce.
The truth is that he cannot keep the children from her and if he is threatening her, its much more likely that he is the one who will lose the kids, especially if she can prove abuse against her by him. Whats more concerning is how she allowed herself to be in relationship with a man like this. Both of them played their part in this relationship and when I work with parting couples, (either individually or together) I help them understand what happened, why it happened and what they must do to ensure this never happens again.
It’s incredible work from which you emerge positively, whilst maintaining your dignity, regaining your identity and with the ability to communicate effectively. Visit Divorce With Dignity and get my free report to give to your friend. You’ll be giving her some of the vital skills she needs to rebuild her confidence and stay buoyant during the divorce process.
Q: Does Mediation work for everyone? My partner, with whom I have three children (9. 12, 16) believes the only way to settle our finances and split our properties and the business we run together here and abroad is with expensive lawyers. She says that she believes I will ‘run rings’ round her, which I have no intention of doing. I have had 2 affairs during our relationship and she is very hurt by this and I believe by using a lawyer she will try and take me to the cleaners. How can I convince her that mediation is better for our relationship going forward?
A: Its pretty hard to convince any one of anything when they feel hurt and betrayed. I can hear your intention’s but sadly the trust between you is ground zero right now. Before embarking on mediation you need support to begin a dialogue together to put some foundations of trust in place. Imagine if you were able to enter the mediation process with a genuine understanding of each other. What would it be like for you both if you each of you understood the reasons you both have behaved the way you did during your relationship? And imagine realising that given the way both of you were raised and socialised, it was inevitable that this relationship would break down at some point?
With that kind of understanding it’s hard to place blame on either party. The only way you can make the mediation process work for you is by gaining that level of understanding, lowering your emotional temperature and learning about your own part in this predicament. Only then will you be ready to mediate effectively about your kids, your finances and your business. If you choose to take the Divorce With Dignity Course it will shine a light on your whole relationship. An added bonus is that once you know this stuff, you’ll be your kids best parents ever as well never making the same mistakes again.
Send you questions to our SOS Divorce Agony Aunt to suzy@startingovershow.co.uk
or call Francine Kaye direct on 0208 416 0121
www.francinekaye.com
Psychic Divorce Horoscope June 2011
June 6, 2011 by Suzy
New Moon Eclipse 1 June – time to make those new moon wishes.
Full Moon Eclipse 15 June – time for cutting ties and conclusions.
Capricorn 23 December-20 January: Jupiter has just entered a 12 year cycle of fun for Capricorns. Its time to lighten up and party.
Aquarius 21 January-19 February: You must think positively and you will see the results you wish for. Also a great month to start a family and improve your home.
Pisces 20 February-20 March: This month get your finger bells out and light some incense. Its time to get in touch with your spiritual side. Learn to meditate.
Aries 21 March-20 April: Your self-esteem rockets this month. Love relationships have potential. You also have opportunities to increase your income.
Taurus 21 April-21 May:Taurus you are just entering a 12 year period of luck! So positive thinking, combined with getting on and doing it, gets results. Don’t be complacent.
Gemini 22 May-21June: The eclipses are in your sign this month. This is a blessing. Out with the old and in with the new. You can make it happen. Don’t hold on for old times sake.
Cancer 22 June-22 July: You know the expression “be careful what you wish for”, this definitely applies to you, as your lucky wishbone is finely tuned right now!
Leo 23 July-23 August: Your career is entering a year long period of success. This is also a good time to make changes in romance, with children and just about anything.
Virgo 24 August-23 September: All change this month, both at work and home. Jupiter is in your travel and study zone, so dust off your passport and get your satchel out.
Libra 24 September-23 October: Jupiter is moving into your intimacy zone this month. Think of all the love lessons you have learnt, nows the time to put them into practice.
Scorpio 24 October-22 November: Jupiter, Venus and Mars in your love zone – wha hoo! You are one lucky Scorpian, its all good in the love department this month.
Sagittarius 23 November-22 December: It’s all about change for you this month. If it’s not working, change it. Work, relationships, home. Luck is on your side – use it.
Jane Orr is a natural clairvoyant and healer, with a formal training in psychotherapy. Each month Jane will channel a psychic forecast for each sign.
