Comments on: Where are the private detectives? http://www.startingovershow.co.uk/index.php/where-are-the-private-detectives/ All the things you need to know about breaking up and starting over in one SOS Thu, 10 Jun 2010 09:19:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Suzy http://www.startingovershow.co.uk/index.php/where-are-the-private-detectives/comment-page-1/#comment-13662 Suzy Wed, 19 Aug 2009 18:57:11 +0000 http://www.startingovershow.co.uk/?p=2177#comment-13662 You are so right Stephen, people staying in the same house because the lawyers tell them to is absolutely crazy. And now we have people staying in the same house because they cannot afford to move out before the house is sold, which can take over a year...... You are so right Stephen, people staying in the same house because the lawyers tell them to is absolutely crazy. And now we have people staying in the same house because they cannot afford to move out before the house is sold, which can take over a year……

]]> By: Stephen R Hillier http://www.startingovershow.co.uk/index.php/where-are-the-private-detectives/comment-page-1/#comment-13651 Stephen R Hillier Wed, 19 Aug 2009 17:45:54 +0000 http://www.startingovershow.co.uk/?p=2177#comment-13651 Good article, Suzy. Lawyers are a big problem for divorcing couples. They can have a tendency to have more of an eye on their fees than what is best for the couples and respecting what they have amicably agreed. They have a huge incentive to inject areas of contention. Another point that you may like to look into, or campaign about if I've got this right, but that is to remove the negative effect of moving out of the shared home on any eventual proceedings. Time & again I'm told I shouldn't have moved out but it is absolutely bonkers that a couple should be forced to share the same roof because of some arcane legal nicety. Isn't it? Nuff ranting from me.... :-) Good article, Suzy.

Lawyers are a big problem for divorcing couples. They can have a tendency to have more of an eye on their fees than what is best for the couples and respecting what they have amicably agreed. They have a huge incentive to inject areas of contention.

Another point that you may like to look into, or campaign about if I’ve got this right, but that is to remove the negative effect of moving out of the shared home on any eventual proceedings. Time & again I’m told I shouldn’t have moved out but it is absolutely bonkers that a couple should be forced to share the same roof because of some arcane legal nicety. Isn’t it?

Nuff ranting from me…. :-)

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